I was chit chatting with a friend and she has the idea to have us taking the personality test.
I came to know about Jung and Briggs Myers typology few months ago
You need to know yourself well before you can learn how to motivate yourself and be on the right track of career.
The result I obtained was INTJ (Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging). I am a very introvert person, sometimes, I feel embarrassed to be introvert.
I was shocked to look at the statistics from here, there’re only 1% of the populations has this traits
Found a site that explains this group well (http://www.davenevins.com/personalities/types/intj.htm)
INTJs believe in constant growth in relationships, and strive for independence for themselves and their mates. They are constantly embarking on "fix-up" projects to improve the overall quality of their lives and relationships. They take their commitments seriously, but are open to redefining their vows, if they see something which may prove to be an improvement over the existing understanding. INTJs are not likely to be "touchy-feely" and overly affirming with their mates or children, and may at times be somewhat insensitive to their emotional needs. However, INTJs are in general extremely capable and intelligent individuals who strive to always be their best, and be moving in a positive direction. If they apply these basic goals to their personal relationships, they likely to enjoy happy and healthy interaction with their families and friends.
INTJ Strengths
· Not threatened by conflict or criticism
· Usually self-confident
· Take their relationships and commitments seriously
· Generally extremely intelligent and capable
· Able to leave a relationship which should be ended, although they may dwell on it in their minds for awhile afterwards
· Interested in "optimizing" their relationships
· Good listeners
INTJ Weaknesses
· Not naturally in tune with others feelings; may be insensitive at times
· May tend to respond to conflict with logic and reason, rather than the desired emotional support
· Not naturally good at expressing feelings and affections
· Tendency to believe that they're always right
· Tendency to be unwilling or unable to accept blame
· Their constant quest to improve everything may be taxing on relationships
· Tend to hold back part of themselves
INTJs in Love
INTJs live much of their lives inside their own heads. They constantly scan their environment for new ideas and theories which they can turn into plans and structures. Sometimes, what they see and understand intuitively within themselves is more pure and "perfect" than the reality of a close personal relationship. INTJs may have a problem reconciling their reality with their fantasy.
INTJs are not naturally in tune with their own feelings, or with what other people are feeling. They also have a tendency to believe that they are always right. While their self-confidence and esteem is attractive, their lack of sensitivity to others can be a problem if it causes them to inadvertantly hurt their partner's feelings. If this is a problem for an INTJ, they should remember to sometimes let their mate be the one who is right, and to try to be aware of the emotional effect that your words have upon them. In conflict situations, INTJs need to remember to be supportive to their mate's emotional needs, rather than treating the conflict as if it is an interesting idea to analyze.
Romantically, the INTJ enjoys thinking about intimacy, and about ways to perfect it. In positive relationships, their creativity and intensity shine through in this arena. In more negative relationships, they might enjoy thinking about romance more than actually doing it. They're likely to approach intimacy from a theoretical, creative perspective, rather than as an opportunity to express love and affection. Although, the INTJ who has learned the importance of these kinds of expressions to the health of their relationship is likely to be more verbally affectionate.
INTJs are able to leave relationships when they're over, and get on with their lives. They believe that this is the right thing to do. They may have more difficulty accomplishing the task than they like to exhibit to other people.
INTJs are highly intense, intelligent people who bring a lot of depth and insight into most major areas of their life. In terms of relationships, their greatest potential pitfall is the tendency to think about things rather than doing them, and their difficulty reconciling reality with their inner visions. INTJs are likely to be in positive, healthy relationships, because they're likely to leave relationships which aren't working for them (unless other circumstances prohibit that).
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