Little Grasshopper

baby Grasshopper

I used to catch this insect when i was younger at my backyard.  My daughter seldom see this thing as we live in town area.  She's so freaked out when she sees this  Now, I don have the courage to catch it with my bare hand.

INTJ Personality Test

I was chit chatting with a friend and she has the idea to have us taking the personality test. 

I came to know about Jung and Briggs Myers typology few months ago

You need to know yourself well before you can learn how to motivate yourself and be on the right track of career.

The result I obtained was INTJ (Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Judging).  I am a very introvert person, sometimes, I feel embarrassed to be introvert. 

I was shocked to look at the statistics from here, there’re only 1% of the populations has this traits

Found a site that explains this group well (http://www.davenevins.com/personalities/types/intj.htm)

INTJs believe in constant growth in relationships, and strive for independence for themselves and their mates. They are constantly embarking on "fix-up" projects to improve the overall quality of their lives and relationships. They take their commitments seriously, but are open to redefining their vows, if they see something which may prove to be an improvement over the existing understanding. INTJs are not likely to be "touchy-feely" and overly affirming with their mates or children, and may at times be somewhat insensitive to their emotional needs. However, INTJs are in general extremely capable and intelligent individuals who strive to always be their best, and be moving in a positive direction. If they apply these basic goals to their personal relationships, they likely to enjoy happy and healthy interaction with their families and friends.

INTJ Strengths

·         Not threatened by conflict or criticism

·         Usually self-confident

·         Take their relationships and commitments seriously

·         Generally extremely intelligent and capable

·         Able to leave a relationship which should be ended, although they may dwell on it in their minds for awhile afterwards

·         Interested in "optimizing" their relationships

·         Good listeners

INTJ Weaknesses

·         Not naturally in tune with others feelings; may be insensitive at times

·         May tend to respond to conflict with logic and reason, rather than the desired emotional support

·         Not naturally good at expressing feelings and affections

·         Tendency to believe that they're always right

·         Tendency to be unwilling or unable to accept blame

·         Their constant quest to improve everything may be taxing on relationships

·         Tend to hold back part of themselves

INTJs in Love

INTJs live much of their lives inside their own heads. They constantly scan their environment for new ideas and theories which they can turn into plans and structures. Sometimes, what they see and understand intuitively within themselves is more pure and "perfect" than the reality of a close personal relationship. INTJs may have a problem reconciling their reality with their fantasy.

INTJs are not naturally in tune with their own feelings, or with what other people are feeling. They also have a tendency to believe that they are always right. While their self-confidence and esteem is attractive, their lack of sensitivity to others can be a problem if it causes them to inadvertantly hurt their partner's feelings. If this is a problem for an INTJ, they should remember to sometimes let their mate be the one who is right, and to try to be aware of the emotional effect that your words have upon them. In conflict situations, INTJs need to remember to be supportive to their mate's emotional needs, rather than treating the conflict as if it is an interesting idea to analyze.

Romantically, the INTJ enjoys thinking about intimacy, and about ways to perfect it. In positive relationships, their creativity and intensity shine through in this arena. In more negative relationships, they might enjoy thinking about romance more than actually doing it. They're likely to approach intimacy from a theoretical, creative perspective, rather than as an opportunity to express love and affection. Although, the INTJ who has learned the importance of these kinds of expressions to the health of their relationship is likely to be more verbally affectionate.

INTJs are able to leave relationships when they're over, and get on with their lives. They believe that this is the right thing to do. They may have more difficulty accomplishing the task than they like to exhibit to other people.

INTJs are highly intense, intelligent people who bring a lot of depth and insight into most major areas of their life. In terms of relationships, their greatest potential pitfall is the tendency to think about things rather than doing them, and their difficulty reconciling reality with their inner visions. INTJs are likely to be in positive, healthy relationships, because they're likely to leave relationships which aren't working for them (unless other circumstances prohibit that).

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Alcohol.. Love

Guinness Stout

Forgot what's it called... Very sleepy after it.

Alcohol is great.. I love to drink. There's nothing wrong with a female drinking alcohol :)

Valentines' Day

Today, we were talking about how fast the days come by.  Slowly, Xmas will be approaching and soon, New Year, following Chinese New Year and Valentines'.  My friend told me that there's this celebration of every months' 14th day in conjunction with the special day.  With further research, I find that it is much special in Korea, where on the 14th Feb, women will give chocolate to the person they admire.  On 14th Mar (called the white day), is the reply day, where the guys should return the women gift's with non chocolate gifts to show their interest.  Then, on the black day, ie. 14th Apr, those women who do not receive any reply shall eat black noodle to "moarne" over their single life.  and there's Much more... so commercialized.

The on the page of wiki too , it was rather funny that they mentioned Malaysia has arrested 100 muslims over celebration of valentines day in 2011???

Training room

yes... refreshment inclusive

Praying on Winter Solstice

It's winter solstice on 22 Dec 2011.  We have some modest offering to our God.  I'm having mensus and not suppose to touch anything..

Escapade, Kuala Belait

So difficult to locate this place.  It's very famous.

limited choices for vegan, think the only thing that impressed me is the variety served and the party set.

This is also my first video for youtube. More to come..

Samajaya Apartment, Kuching

Sunplay 130SPF

130 SPF...

protect your skin from pigmentation not just for purpose of maintaining fairer skin.
fairness can still be fixed, pigmentation very difficult

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Kuching Waterfront (KWF) at night

nice view at night.. my camera not so good

good business

selling LED toys - make good bucks

Movie at Home

Harry Potter and her,
kiasi me..
i put a plaster @ the webcam.. heheheheh

Cleaning Ear Wax

I just dont understand why doctor said that it's good to use cotton bud to clear the ear wax.. it's not cleaning but pushing it further down..  It's difficult to find the right one but here's 2 of my favorite.

this is safer... but.. not so satisfying

prefer this...

SBEU farewell

on way to SBEU retreat

the restaurant at SBEU

at the netball field

the pathway to the place we stayed

view from side of the house

I stayed in this room with the other 3 gals

like the lighting

somemore

early morning, beachwalk

alone... too early...

the net set up by the fisherman. catch oyster, i think

... somemore

little snails.. watchful, scared that it will hurt my barefeet

shadow no 1

shadow no 2

it's locked.. too early

it leads to teh tree top terrace

can actually view the whole resort on top of this tree

the house from far

other accomodations

somemore..

still in progress, not sure what will they enhance further

see.. there's the tree terrace on the house

the resort

beach... alone.

bright sun.. too early.. 7am



messyyyy..

somemore..





the kitchen

from living room

all included... dishwasher, broom... microwave..

... random

ta da...

entrance

somemore...

living room..

random

place to chill

dining area

we stayed here

nice nice..



another room. king size bed

bathroom, impressed

jacuzzi... oh my.. in the bedroom

there's 2 more king sized bed @ 1st floor