Valuable advice

They've always said that we should be positive.  Positive in everything.  But i was so stucked in my world and forgot how to apply it to this problem.  Until she hit me up with this, she said.... Positive will not cause disappointment.  It is about finding the right solution in every problem faced.  If that matter has been bothering you, you have to analyze it well and "make friends" with your problem so that you will find away to overcome it.  The important is that if you are willing to let go your egoism, you will feel happiness is just around the corner.  Understand your problem and what makes you sad today and think of what you can do today to change your feeling.