I have encountered a divorced woman. She is unemployed and currently in a relationship. I should say that the ex-husband is cheating on her and that causes their marriage to wreaked. She never got to know this affair if it is not her ex-husband who informed her all these. From my point of view, her ex-husband is not so bad after all, belonged to one of those genuine honest guy but just to stupid to tell it to the wife.
Due to the betrayal in marriage, she is hoping that she’ll land into a better relationship. She knew this boyfriend via net. It is part of my stupid big mouth that got her carried away in net romance. It worked well and they made it for few years.
But he is belonged to those who likes to socialize. His work involved a lot of meeting with others. And she can cope with it. She is over jealous over smallest matter, about him chatting with other people on the net, facebooking, etc. I can remember just how many times the quarrel is.
We’ve tried to become the mediator for last few huge quarrels. Apparently, it does not work. She needs help to get out. Other than throwing advices, there is nothing we can do to get her out of the recurring problems.
She’s not ugly, she is just not confident of herself. She just want to be cared.
Above all, I hope she’ll realize that if it doesn’t work, she can walk away. There is no need to pressure both parties with these. This is all win-win for both. Never will a person change for u and never will u change for others. Everybody think themselves as nicest in the world.
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