How would you define a perfectionist? Here's what i think:
- dustfree and clean
- organized
- high expectation
- stressed over minor issue
- require acknowledgment of others
- labels everything
Advantages of being a perfectionist, they can be already reliable and dependable. You can count on them and they make sure that nothing went wrong, unless it's unforeseen. Bosses love these people.
The cons are if you were to be their friends or someone close, you will feel the stress too. They are demanding and result oriented and subordinates hate them. and due to the reason that they are organized, their secrets/strategies are very likely to be exposed. and usually they will not be able to settle down easily as they set high expectation on their life partners.
How should you live with a perfectionist? you first, have to understand and tolerate with them. If you are too a perfectionist, i would not think that it is much of a problem. But if you are not, then voice up the concerns and impact. Not all matters need to be perfect. Certain things will be simpler if we put down less concern. The output will still be the same. You don't have to follow all the rules/procedures to be rightful person.